So, story time: I am a transman. I got set up on a blind date with a lady. Nervous at first, but we really hit it off. She is gorgeous and sweet and we're both having the time of our lives, and long story short, we end up back at my place. Around the time things get going, I realize she doesn't know: virtually no one does (the friend who set me up on the date sure didn't). So I start to panic a little, because while I am totally into this girl, I've been turned down before when people (c)

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molly-ren:

pervocracy:

get past the pants. So I’m suddenly freaking out, and as much as I love that this is happening, I’m trying to defuse the moment a little. I REALLY like this girl, I really don’t want to blow this. So she seems concerned, and asks what’s wrong, and she looks really freaked out that she’s hurt me or something (or so i assumed). At this point, we’re both nearing panic attack territory, and attempt to stop. While we’re trying to detangle from each other, I realize why she’s freaking out:

she’s gotten hard. Turns out, she’s trans as well, and was scared my panic was because I had realized, and was trying to bail on her for it. I explain, and she cracks the fuck up, and so do I, and long story short: we’ve been married for three years now. I figured you might enjoy, as you’re one of my favorite blogs for relationship/sexuality things, and I thought I should share. :D

Awww.  <3  Thank you so much for sharing, and congrats to you and your wife!

THIS IS THE BEST DATING STORY

Omfg… That doesnt even sound real, i…. Omg…

People are quicker to believe fabricated bullshit. Please stop encouraging it.

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luvlysmilk:

cereal-experiments:

If you discredit someone claiming someone else abused them on the basis that they are mentally ill than that is ableist

If you discredit someone who claiming someone else abused them at all than that is victim blaming

I’m…

^^^^

Also i’m just suggesting to be careful to be so quick to blame because these types of illnesses cause these sorts of situations, and that you should be careful, because I have experienced (as the “victim” and person with said illnesses) something SIMILAR. Not suggesting that Pengo is right or wrong. So… Sorry that my experience with my illness causes you to call me disgusting for giving a little insight!

cereal-experiments:

If you discredit someone claiming someone else abused them on the basis that they are mentally ill than that is ableist

If you discredit someone who claiming someone else abused them at all than that is victim blaming

I’m not even sure why this needs to be explained.

i have severe anxiety (among other things), and i can see what I did to my partner what Pengo is doing to Pk. Take caution in laying blame so instantly.

It needs to be explained because its not always true like you people seem to think, especially in this situation.

People who have paranoia, anxiety, jealousy issues, any kind of issues that can affect the people around you, should be subject to at least a little doubt, because they tend to twist or make things up. Not to totally discredit them, no, no!! Never. But, more caution is needed…

I know because Im sensitive to this shit and have some of these illnesses claimed, and have- in fits of anxiety and paranoia- claimed romantic partners to be abusive when they literally did nothing wrong outside of being clueless in how to help me… FOR YEARS. And hurt them HORRIBLY. They literally could not deal with me by the end of it and started suffering from anxiety.

I only recognized it was me who was mostly at fault after I was told I may have twisted things to seem like their fault. Yes, MY FAULT. My illness, te thing I cannot help without medications, HURT someone and I needed to recognize that. I’m not hurt by claims that my illness did. It made me feel the need to try and control it better, like my friends said i should. its hard to accept because nobody wants to blame the person who is “lower” than the other and apparently more hurt but uhhh… You kind of need to at least attempt to understand what is going on.

Just because they have a mental illness doesn’t make what they say immediately true or their words excusable. People who have illnesses are subject to abuse VERY FREQUENTLY yes, but in this instance, people need to realize that this illness /affected the relationship/, affected their interactions, and lead to them breaking up. Bringing it up is IMPORTANT because it was a factor, and still is, in the argument itself. It sucks it got in the way and has to be brought up but it DOES.

Its absurd to think all cases where the apparent “victim” is mentally ill, is always right and is the actual victim. Its fantastic to be sensitive and empathetic, and be receptive to claims like these, but this is all very disgusting how quick everyone is to lay blame in this way. Get over yourself :\

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kasukasukasumisty:

Steven Universe - Island Adventure (Sneak Peek)

Awwww-…

OMFG HOLY SHIT AHAHAHA

Wow! It’s really cool to see how much these three characters alone have developed over the season.

AAAH AWW ♥

This is seriously so cute. And the song, it sounds amazing!!!

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zombiemiki:

Little Tales merch went on sale today!

The Pikachu plush are so cute~

Last year, the pair pika plush sold out by the end of the second day (Sunday), so I am curious to see how long they last this year.

this is not goddamn fair i NEED these

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gracekraft:

The joke is that Pearl is a massive dork

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so i herd some things

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lexyeevee:

it has come to my attention that there is a post going around

if you don’t know what i’m talking about then just move along, probably

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Gaslighting or gas-lighting[1] is a form of mental abuse in which false information is presented with the intent of…

YES. YES. YES.

I had actually spent like 3 hours last night writing a reply post to the short version to show people who were re blogging it that much of the information was forged, madeup, edited or just sounded downright untrue in the long version. But I went back on the wepage and lost it all, so I gave up.

But to sum up what I was going to post;

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1. The guy who wrote it at least (but not limited to) 20 times stated that he was “Sorry for doing things but then insisted PK was the abusive one in that situation for being upset. 

This lines up with what PK was saying when PK said he was remembering things wrong and getting upset about it. Which was incredibly clear when he showed he was passionate about the issue of the buttons placement enough to draw out three panels describing why PK was ‘being unreasonable’ for being upset about it. 

But this actually proved PK’s statements correct by showing us in his own comments that he had definitely remembered being there and even apologized for those things but refused to acknowledge his own behavior and the way he acted was an offense.

Like lets be real for a second.

If you were a professional artist, wouldn’t you be upset if you had prepared months in advance for a convention, and justly under a lot of stress- when suddenly someone you invited tries to make you print out all of another artists work and then tries to take control of your stand and your own merchandise and attempts numerous times to force you to change your prices or to move your stuff the way they wanted it when you said *No* clearly several times?

You’d be ticked. And Pk was ticked.

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2. This guy stated at least 15 times that the evidence to back up his statements “cannot be found”, “I deleted it” or “I can’t recover it”. Which is almost every. single instance. That he was required to give crucial proof to back any of this up. Yet he is able to retrieve other “skype logs” and tumblr asks from over a year ago.

Including one tumblr ask in particular that he stated was his friends ask, but was clearly sent to his own inbox as you can see when you look at the words “answered you” which he didn’t blur out.

It’s also notable to mention that he directly wrote things in-between certain ’skype logs’ which proves he could have easily edited any of these at any time and why a bunch of them look extremely fake.

See the Green? He manually wrote that in.

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3.He put about 30 wikipedia terms for Abuse, mental disorders and phobia’s over almost every single paragraph. He literally diagnosed himself with 20 cases of traumatic phobia’s and mental disorders????

You can’t diagnose yourself with all of that. If you really had all of that you could never go outside.

And I’m pretty sure an honest victim of abuse wouldn’t have gone to all the trouble to do this. It’s so fishy it practically reeks.

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4. He clearly stated he was upset PK cut ties with him and once in one of the chat logs and somewhere in the long post he stated that he didn’t actually think PK was abusive until he read that vent post PK wrote about his actions at the convention and after they broke up.

Meaning, Pk’s actions did not come across to him as abusive at all until he had read PK’s vent post on how PK felt about his behavior AFTER THIS HAD ALL HAPPENED.

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5. HIS FINAL APOLOGY EVEN DIRECTLY STATES THAT HE ACKNOWLEDGES THAT HE -DID- IN FACT, GRAVELY UPSET PK AT THE CONVENTION AND HE KNEW AND ACKNOWLEDGED THE REASONS WHY.

THIS PLACES HIM AT THE SCENE. THAT HE REALLY DID DO EVERYTHING PK SAID HE DID.

YET HE FEIGNS INNOCENCE AND STATES THAT PK WAS IN THE WRONG FOR THE MAJORITY OF THE LONG POST, WHICH CONTRADICTS EVERY SINGLE APOLOGY AND EVERY STATEMENT HE MADE THROUGHOUT.

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The entire way the post is written and it’s length is clearly aimed for revenge and to make social justice warriors upset. Not as an honest account of victim abuse- and shouldn’t be taken seriously.

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artemispanthar:

"All those monsters we fight used to be just like us! Right, Pearl?"

"Yes. But they’ve become corrupted and broken. We have to take care of them, subdue them, contain them… It’s the best we can do for them, for now."

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